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This post was selected as the No. 7 top article of the week in the June 20th Edition of the Best of Money Carnival at MoneyCrashers. Quite an honor!
The following is a guest post by Becca with The Academic Wino, a blog dedicated to examining current research related to wine with a little fun thrown in to the mix. Be sure to stop by her site and say “hi”!
What Motivates Women to Donate Their Eggs?
Ethical Concerns and Criticisms of Egg Donation
Physical Risks
A gonadotropin-releasing hormone is injected in order to halt ovulation. Follicle-stimulating hormones are simultaneously injected in order to grow and mature several egg follicles at once, instead of the usual one per month. After 7-14 days of these injections, a “trigger shot” containing human chorionic gonadotropin, or hCG, triggers the release of the mature follicles and they are retrieved during an invasive surgical procedure.
Possible risks of egg donation include experiencing PMS-like symptoms, dehydration, pain at the injection site, increase risk of multiple-birth pregnancy, ovarian hyper-stimulation syndrome, and all the other risks involved in routine anesthetic-requiring surgical procedures. It is not clear what the long term risks are for egg donors, so most egg donation programs limit the number of times a woman may donate to 5-6 times.
To Donate or Not To Donate?
Egg donation also harbors psychological risks, as the donor must accept the idea that they are helping to create a human being that they will likely never be allowed to know or interact with. Egg donation isn’t for everyone, and even financial compensation can’t completely cover up the risks involved.
Why I Donate
Over time, I’ve received anonymous ‘Thank You’ cards from two of my recipient parents, which helped in my decision to donate multiple times. “We write to let you know that you have helped us to realize a singular dream that we started to pursue over nine years ago. While we don’t yet know that we’ll be successful, your commitment to us, two people whom you’ve never met, nor will ever meet, is so greatly appreciated.”
How about you all? Have you ever donated eggs or known anyone that donates eggs? What are your financial thoughts on the subject? Is $5000 too little, too much, or just the right amount of compensation for going through this process?
Share your experiences by commenting below!
Jacob’s Thoughts – Listed below are my random thoughts as I was reading this article.
- It’s truly amazing to me how much more effort it takes for women to donate their eggs than it takes for men to donate their sexual cells. Weird right?!
- I really admire women who donate their eggs, as I’ve learned in the past few months that couples that are unable to have a child on their own are REALLY grateful for the help from the donors. However, I don’t think I would personally ever donate my sperm/egg cells unless I had to.
- If you’ve stopped by my site before, you know that I am a big fan (or maybe sucker would be a better word) for Time Value of Money analyses.
- As such, an interesting thought exercise is this scenario – a 21 year old girl decides to donate eggs once per year for five years until she is 25 years old.
- Each time she donates, she receives $5000.
- If we assume that she places this money in a Roth IRA invested in index mutual funds earning 10% per year, the magic of compound interest will present her with the sum of $2,022,744 by the time she retires at age 70. Quite amazing uh?!
- You can view the gory details of this calculation at the shared Google Spreadsheet I created at the following link - Egg Donation Time Value of Money Calculator.
- As you can see from this analysis, the monetary compensation provided by donating your eggs is quite enticing. However, Becca makes a very important point that you should have a reason aside from the money (at the end of the day) for why you want to donate eggs. Thanks for reading!
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I donated my eggs in the summer of 2008 as an entering fourth year at the University of Chicago. I had several motivations for doing so:
1. $7000. I donated through Alternate Reproductive Resources in Chicago, and they frequently had adds in the free section of the Chicago Tribune. It should be no surprise that this paper was frequently taken up by college students, and the add enticed me. While I was a work-study student, I was particularly determined to not ask my parental units for money, and I didn't see many other alternatives to make a tidy income while I was also working on my bachelor's thesis. I had a small sum of credit card debt that I was determined to pay off, and I needed a new laptop. $7000, even after taxes, would ease a many burdens.
2. Curiosity. Pure and simple. I am a biologist, and the idea of donating my gametes was powerful motivation for getting an inside look into the process of 21st century reproductive bargaining. What would be asked of me? What tests would they run? What kind of people are looking for eggs? What legal tape do I have to duck around? By far the most fascinating part of the entire endeavor was at the peak of the hormonal stimulation of the ovaries to over-develop. I had to have a vaginal ultrasound performed every other day initially, then everyday as the donation day approached. The technician was gracious enough to explain to me what I was seeing, and the sight of the heavy ovaries just blew me away. My gamete-production centers, normally the size of an almond with one developing follicle at a time, had expanded to the size of a tangerine, with a dozen follicles packed in, giving the appearance of a tiny pomegranate. It was so cool!
3. Selfishness. I know Becca calls it altruism, but in reality (even if you don't recognize it), you are gaining a genetic offspring from this deal as well. You are putting your genes into the pool, and that encouraged me to donate. I want children, I want a lot of children, but they are expensive, and the world already has a ton, so I don't want to make any more with my partner than replacement rate. But here was the opportunity to cheat that! I would play a cuckoo, putting my eggs to be raised by someone else, satisfying that desire to spread my genes without any of the work! Yes, yes, I gave a gay couple in Virginia an offspring (I hope – I requested no information be sent to me. The last thing a college kid needs is knowledge that see she made a baby), and that's awesome for them. I provided one-half of that, so even if I never have kids with my partner, I at least did it once, and I can receive some satisfaction from that.
When I donated, it was at an opportune time. I was in the tail-end of a long-distance relationship with my spouse, so sexual activity that might've resulted in multiple births on my part were minimized. Nothing became of the money (besides the computer I'm currently using), since it was more of a band-aid fund instead of an actual investment. I only donated once, but soon after I was asked by ARR to donate again. I declined, mainly because I was leaving Chicago soon, but I think I would do it again if asked. If a friend asked for my eggs, I would probably even do it free of charge.
Fantastic comments, Rea!
I have to agree with your “cheating” comment. I joke around all the time saying that I am “making babies without putting in the physiological/biological effort of making babies” and therefore I am “survival of the fittest at it's best”.
Yes, it's definitely partly selfish, but that wasn't the first thing that popped into my mind when considering donating eggs. First, I thought the money was great. A very close second, I thought that it was pretty incredible that I was giving something so valuable to an anonymous couple who so desired to have children but couldn't. Finally, as the biologist that I am, I did have similar thoughts to you regarding the “cuckoo syndrome”, if you will, and that this would be a great evolutionary opportunity for me to pass along my own genetic information without the negative energetic effects it would cost me if I were going through the pregnancy myself.
Thank you for the great, insightful comments!
I donated my eggs in the summer of 2008 as an entering fourth year at the University of Chicago. I had several motivations for doing so:
1. $7000. I donated through Alternate Reproductive Resources in Chicago, and they frequently had adds in the free section of the Chicago Tribune. It should be no surprise that this paper was frequently taken up by college students, and the add enticed me. While I was a work-study student, I was particularly determined to not ask my parental units for money, and I didn't see many other alternatives to make a tidy income while I was also working on my bachelor's thesis. I had a small sum of credit card debt that I was determined to pay off, and I needed a new laptop. $7000, even after taxes, would ease a many burdens.
2. Curiosity. Pure and simple. I am a biologist, and the idea of donating my gametes was powerful motivation for getting an inside look into the process of 21st century reproductive bargaining. What would be asked of me? What tests would they run? What kind of people are looking for eggs? What legal tape do I have to duck around? By far the most fascinating part of the entire endeavor was at the peak of the hormonal stimulation of the ovaries to over-develop. I had to have a vaginal ultrasound performed every other day initially, then everyday as the donation day approached. The technician was gracious enough to explain to me what I was seeing, and the sight of the heavy ovaries just blew me away. My gamete-production centers, normally the size of an almond with one developing follicle at a time, had expanded to the size of a tangerine, with a dozen follicles packed in, giving the appearance of a tiny pomegranate. It was so cool!
3. Selfishness. I know Becca calls it altruism, but in reality (even if you don't recognize it), you are gaining a genetic offspring from this deal as well. You are putting your genes into the pool, and that encouraged me to donate. I want children, I want a lot of children, but they are expensive, and the world already has a ton, so I don't want to make any more with my partner than replacement rate. But here was the opportunity to cheat that! I would play a cuckoo, putting my eggs to be raised by someone else, satisfying that desire to spread my genes without any of the work! Yes, yes, I gave a gay couple in Virginia an offspring (I hope – I requested no information be sent to me. The last thing a college kid needs is knowledge that see she made a baby), and that's awesome for them. I provided one-half of that, so even if I never have kids with my partner, I at least did it once, and I can receive some satisfaction from that.
When I donated, it was at an opportune time. I was in the tail-end of a long-distance relationship with my spouse, so sexual activity that might've resulted in multiple births on my part were minimized. Nothing became of the money (besides the computer I'm currently using), since it was more of a band-aid fund instead of an actual investment. I only donated once, but soon after I was asked by ARR to donate again. I declined, mainly because I was leaving Chicago soon, but I think I would do it again if asked. If a friend asked for my eggs, I would probably even do it free of charge.
Rea, your honesty is so refreshing – particularly acknowledging that you have a child ‘out there’ but do not have to participate in the financial/emotional strain of raising it. I am in the process of finishing my doctorial research on the experience of anonymous egg donation and would love the opportunity to get more insights from you if possible – my email is eggdonationstudy@gmail.com
Very cool idea for a research study! So you are focusing on the psychological aspect of the donation process? I'd be interested in hearing the results when you're finished!
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Fantastic comments, Rea!
I have to agree with your “cheating” comment. I joke around all the time saying that I am “making babies without putting in the physiological/biological effort of making babies” and therefore I am “survival of the fittest at it's best”.
Yes, it's definitely partly selfish, but that wasn't the first thing that popped into my mind when considering donating eggs. First, I thought the money was great. A very close second, I thought that it was pretty incredible that I was giving something so valuable to an anonymous couple who so desired to have children but couldn't. Finally, as the biologist that I am, I did have similar thoughts to you regarding the “cuckoo syndrome”, if you will, and that this would be a great evolutionary opportunity for me to pass along my own genetic information without the negative energetic effects it would cost me if I were going through the pregnancy myself.
Thank you for the great, insightful comments!
You are brave. I don't think I could do it. I would carry a baby for someone else before donating an egg. The thought of having a biological baby out there would bother me.
You are brave. I don't think I could do it. I would carry a baby for someone else before donating an egg. The thought of having a biological baby out there would bother me.
Thanks for your comment, Ashley!
I understand your concern, and that was definitely something I had to think about before donating. I suppose the fact that I'll never know whether or not a successful pregnancy even resulted helped me get through that.
Unless it were a sister or close cousin, I don't think I would be able to carry a child for someone else. Even though biologically the child wasn't mine, going through a pregnancy would be an extremely emotional (and lengthy) process, one in which biologically always ends with the woman giving birth being able to take the child home. I don't think I could have that kind of a connection with the child and just be able to give it up when the whole process was over. But, who knows!
Thank you so much for reading and for your comment!
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What a controversial topic!! Very interesting story. I have thought of that in the past in my youth but now that I am an adult I have been able to consider the psychological and ethical implications. I don't think I could do it now.
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Thanks for your comment, Miss T! Yes, it's definitely controversial! I first donated back in 2005 when I was 23, and though I was young, I had a good understanding of what I was getting myself into. It was something I had to deal with, and after deciding to donate and completing the process, it made me feel so amazing having given something so special (potentially, provided it actually was successful) to someone who was ready to have a child of their own but could not).
Now that I'm 29, I still feel confident and comfortable with my decision, and am so happy for those lives that I've touched by doing it.
Thank you so much for reading and commenting!
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Interesting and well written article.
Thank you for reading!
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